It’s so easy to get further lost in this misguided quest to
search for, regain, learn or find self love
When maybe it was never there in the first place
“Self love” is not some feeling, attachment or emotion.
It is simply the ability to value yourself as a person.
It’s not some trait or skill to be acquired, it’s simply a perspective.
To value yourself as a person, you have to first see yourself as a person.
we get so lost looking for ourself and the idea of a “self” we lose sight of how we ourself are also human, just human.
I stopped thinking of myself as “me”, but instead as a
And suddenly, a lot of things fell into place. I wouldn’t want
or allow someone I care for to treat themself this way, so
what gives me the right to give myself special treatment to
treat myself differently?
You need to eat.You haven’t showered in X days. You
haven’t slept in X days
Suddenly these things begin to matter, and excuses had no bearing.
It may be depersonalisation but then instead of searching
for something that is so illusive, this shift in perspective
made so many things so much more simple