Dear <22’s:

Don’t be in such a hurry to grow up. It is rewarding to be self sufficient, responsible and willing and capable to make your choices, yes… but you have a lifetime of taxes, wages, liabilities and responsibilities ahead of you. Enjoy what you can while it lasts. It is true when they say you can […]

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I face the songs

Of the blaring similarities observable between thoughts and behaviours designated from my inner voices to my outward actions … and that of diagnostic hallmarks of certain illnesses in the DSM; traits and conditions specifically tailored to identity certain patterns…. specifically that of Borderline Personality Disorder, Bipolar, Dissociative Amnesia, DID & various characteristics that suggest a […]

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哪位家長忍受得了親視孩兒受苦?

但不跌不撞;又怎領會到傷的悲,歡的喜,痛的哭,樂的意? 父母不再付托身後而獨自承受陌生難處痛處的他們又該如何? 父母付出的:要懂得愛惜,珍惜,感激,感恩……但千萬不能凭依。 同時,作為父母的:也要懂得適當的放手,不要讓愛成為無形的羁绊。 離不開娇惯的孩兒:不管白髮皺皮,雞皮鶴發………也只不過是長不大的孩兒。

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Has it been redefined

or have I simply been misspelling “no”? Please, for the love of god, if you can’t accept rejection – at the very least – deal with your denial afterwards… outright denial in the face of rejection is so ludicrous it stupidifies one to the point where laughter transcends physical manifestation.

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That junkie. That alcoholic.

It’s not the drugs or alcohol. People shouldn’t be blaming alcohol and drugs and demonising them. They aren’t the problems, they are just a manifestation of an existing problem. I’m not saying alcohol is good, I’m saying that people should put less focus on the substances and behaviour and instead perhaps try to search for […]

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“Self”-“Love”

It’s so easy to get further lost in this misguided quest to search for, regain, learn or find self love When maybe it was never there in the first place “Self love” is not some feeling, attachment or emotion. It is simply the ability to value yourself as a person. It’s not some trait or […]

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“Depression”: when helping does more harm than good

It is disappointing how the term or idea of “feeling depressed” still remains to be commonplace, if not colloquial despite the increased awareness of the mental illness. In an attempt to reduce stigma and encourage support to those in need however, the resulting “acceptance” perhaps does more harm than good. It is one thing to […]

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Acquiescence

Things are “better” than I could ever anticipate, ask for, or dream of. (Most) Things are where they belong, I have somewhat of a healthy routine/regime, I’m eating & sleeping, Liam is growing beautifully and I’ve once again started reaching out to people whom I care about. I’m starting to see things in a more […]

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Nostalgia

才發現 原來我在英國已經渡過了7年 這幾年回香港越來越少 其實是因為不捨得寶貝去貓舍 也心疼他坐飛機 而不是因為不再在乎你 而不是因為不重視你 時光總是在眼前流過 甚至在身後默默的不經而去 竟然不可捕捉 也不再盲目的追逐 完整的去體驗一個地方 一個生活 擁有一個歸處 安穩過日子 總比一心兩地要健全吧? 無論何處,心中還是有你 即使沒聯絡 沒接触 總有一天 我還是會回來的 回去了 就不走了 香港已像遙遠的夢境 既陌生以及不可触摸 總帶著一種不歸不捨的殘念 回來後 你是否還記得我 ? 重逢後 你腦海中心懷裡 會是記憶中的那個她 還是面前陌生的我 2019 01 05 10:52pm

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[TBC] Frustration.

that pent-up, irritating, and seemingly perennial energy that ironically drains you of motivation, leaving you physically and psychologically depleted. It accumulates like a “jar” of bees – hungry for the honey that is your turmoil, trapped in your agony. They sing a muted buzz in the background of what is your conscious steams of thoughts, […]

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Those moments,

those precious, fleeting moments, when you are tending to something mundane or even tedious. Those moments when you are mindlessly putting away laundry that have been hanging on the rail for weeks, or carelessly scouring dishes that have seasoned to the cold, unkempt counter top… And your thoughts slow to a halt; your emotions dwindle […]

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